Culture Shock in the US: An Indian Student’s Guide to Adjusting to American Life

This blog shares the personal experiences of Ar. Sai Srijith Lingannapeta, a licensed architect with four years of experience in the field, currently pursuing a Master’s degree in Construction Management at Michigan State University. He reflects on his experiences, from figuring out the academic environment and adjusting to new social norms to finding a balance between Indian traditions and American life. His journey serves as a guide for other Indian students who are preparing to make the leap to study abroad, offering insights into the challenges and rewards of integration into a new culture.

This is what Srijith has to say..

Arriving in the USA on August 16, 2023, just a day after India’s Independence Day, marked a significant milestone in my life. The emotions were mixed—excitement at the thought of exploring a new world, yet an underlying sadness as I left my family and friends miles behind. My first encounter with American culture happened at an unexpected place—a bus stop. A stranger casually started a conversation with me, a level of friendliness I wasn’t used to from my reserved interactions in India and this small, surprising moment marked the beginning of my journey through cultural adjustment, filled with learning and adaptation.

Discovering a New Academic World

One of the first challenges was adjusting to the academic system. My journey in construction management began with an estimating class at Michigan State University. The smaller class size fostered a tight-knit learning environment, unlike the larger, more formal classroom settings I was accustomed to in India. The professors were incredibly approachable, encouraging open communication and questions, creating a more engaging and interactive academic experience.

This was a sharp contrast to the more hierarchical and formal approach in India, where student-teacher interactions often remained professional and academic-focused. Here, I found myself enjoying the learning process in a new way, as professors were not just instructors but mentors, guiding us through both academic and personal challenges. This dynamic fostered a deeper appreciation of the American educational system’s emphasis on collaboration and open dialogue.

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Navigating Social Landscapes

Adjusting socially came with its own set of challenges. My trip to San Diego for a construction convention was an eye-opener. I was thrust into casual conversations about the weather and American football—topics that left me, and my fellow international peers, at a loss. It was a small but significant moment of culture shock. While we could fluently discuss technical topics related to construction, navigating everyday small talk felt foreign and uncomfortable.

This experience underscored the need to adapt and blend into the social fabric. It also reinforced how important it is to remain open-minded and willing to learn. Social integration is a critical part of the adjustment process, and finding common ground in casual conversations, whether it's through sports, local news, or shared hobbies, became an ongoing lesson in bridging cultural gaps.

Food, Festivals, and Finding Community

For many international students, food is one of the most comforting yet challenging aspects of integration. Adjusting to American cuisine was a new experience, but it didn’t take long before I craved the flavours and spices of home. The search for Indian restaurants and grocery stores became an essential part of my journey to maintain a connection with my culture.

Festivals like Diwali and Holi brought a much-needed sense of community. Thanks to Indian student organisations at the university, we were able to celebrate these festivals with familiar rituals and food, alongside fellow Indian students and even curious international friends. These cultural events not only provided comfort but also introduced my American and international peers to the richness of Indian traditions.

Finding and building a community, both Indian and international, became a key part of my integration into American life. It taught me the importance of balancing adaptation with the preservation of one’s cultural identity. The blend of these two worlds became a cornerstone of my growth, allowing me to celebrate both my heritage and the new experiences America had to offer.

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Personal Growth and Lessons Learned

The cultural differences, while challenging at first, played an instrumental role in my personal growth. From overcoming language nuances to navigating unfamiliar social norms, each experience was a valuable learning opportunity. The initial discomfort gradually turned into a deeper understanding of cultural diversity, and I became more confident in my ability to thrive in this new environment.

As a mentor at GyanDhan, I often share these experiences with aspiring students. The lessons I’ve learned about adaptability, resilience, and embracing diversity extend beyond the classroom. Each cultural hurdle, whether it was in academics, food, or social interactions, helped me develop a broader perspective, one that is crucial for students stepping into international waters for the first time.

Conclusion

Reflecting on my journey from India to the USA, the process of adjusting to the realities of culture shock and integration has been transformative. It has not only shaped my academic and professional journey but also enriched my personal growth in profound ways. The challenges of navigating a new academic system, adapting to social norms, and maintaining cultural connections have all contributed to my evolving perspective on the world.

To future international students, my advice is simple—embrace the challenges with an open heart and mind. Culture shock is real, but it’s also an opportunity for immense personal development. The process of adapting to a new culture will not only enhance your academic experience but will also broaden your worldview, giving you a more diverse and enriched life.